The Pulse: Q&A

Our First Sexual Encounter Was Terrible! He Only Lasted 2 Minutes!

Dear The Pulse,

I had my first sexual encounter with this guy I’ve been dating for 2 months and it was horrible! He only lasted 2 minutes and couldn’t get it back up! He apologized and said it was because he hadn’t had sex in a while. I was so pissed I just got dressed and left. I hate to sound shallow, but I’m thinking about getting out now before feelings become involved. Am I wrong?

My Boyfriend is too small to satisfy me. I'm tired of faking it. Help!!

Dear Pulse,

My boyfriend is really a great guy and he treats me like a queen, but his penis is too small to satisfy me. I haven’t had an orgasm in 5 months and I’m about to lose my mind! I’m tired of faking it. Should I move on?

Sexually frustrated (Atlanta, GA)

The Day After Valentine's Day

Dear Pulse,

My boyfriend and I live about an hour apart. He didn’t want to drive down for Valentine’s Day, giving me some lame excuse about being too tired after work. Do you think he’s seeing someone else?

Yours Truly,

Abigail (NYC)

If I give up the na-na on a first date will the guy think I am a ho?

Dear Pulse,

I’ve been out of a serious relationship for a few months now and am back on the market. The last guy I was with was a dog and slept with so many other women. I am over it though and am looking for a guy whom I can trust. I want to know about putting out on the first date. If I give up the na-na on a first date will the guy think I am a ho? I am horny as hell but don’t want to send the wrong vibe. Remember, I am looking for a relationship.

Rump Shaker (23 y/o F, Denver, CO)