Dear Pulse,
My boyfriend is really a great guy and he treats me like a queen, but his penis is too small to satisfy me. I haven’t had an orgasm in 5 months and I’m about to lose my mind! I’m tired of faking it. Should I move on?
Sexually frustrated (Atlanta, GA)
Dear Sexually Frustrated,
Size does matter, but it’s not everything. Don’t throw in the towel on a good relationship just because his package doesn’t measure up. There’s more than one way to skin a cat; in your case, please a cat. You just have to get creative. You can start by exploring the different things his tongue and fingers can do. Oh, the possibilities! If you still can’t reach your happy ending, take your man to the sex shop and pick out a dildo and/or vibrator together. Don’t let him know you are buying toys to make up for his shortcomings. Tell him you want to spice up things in the bedroom. Then go home and practice till you get it right!
Ci Ci Foster
*The Pulse: Q&A is intended as inspiring and engaging advice and not an alternative for therapeutic intervention, should it be needed.
